Wild Hearts Society

I often found myself uncertain about what I wanted to be when I grew up. Whenever someone would ask me as a child, I quickly realized that saying “a mother” wasn’t the response they were hoping for. So, I started answering with choices like teacher or nurse, feeling a twinge of discomfort at the idea that one day, I would have to choose a path for myself.

What I didn’t fully understand years ago, I’m beginning to grasp now: when I expressed what my heart truly yearned for, mother, I was really speaking to the essence of what you embody—creator, nurturer, guide, and a beautiful connector of people.

Some people seem to have a clear understanding of their true selves from an early age, pursuing their dreams with determination. For others, like me, the journey feels more like a gentle simmer, a soft murmur waiting to be heard. Who I am meant to be has patiently lingered, waiting for me to find stillness in my life and truly listen to that inner calling.

My Journey

After dedicating 24 years to serving clients behind the salon chair, I’ve discovered that my true passion resides in supporting the hearts and lives of those I serve. My aspiration to become a certified women’s life coach is guiding me toward embracing my authentic self. Over the past four years, I have embarked on a profound journey of self-discovery and healing, seeking to overcome the pain of my past miscarriages while navigating the complexities of rebuilding my relationship with my spouse and nurturing a newfound love for myself in the wake of betrayal.

A Life Coach, Heather Fillmore, showed up in my instagram, Wild Hearts, algotherium one day. It was like she could see every pain point I had. I was going to a counselor at the time but found that Heather was giving me far more insight. I hired her after completing a few sessions something clicked. I wanted to become a Life Coach as well. I began online training and obtained my certification. Helping women explore their lives through creative practices is what I am meant to do.

To embrace the future, it’s essential to understand your desires and take active steps towards creating a fulfilling life for yourself. If you’re finding it challenging to connect with your true self, remember that you’re not alone; there are gentle ways to explore and deepen your self-awareness.

Just how does a person begin the journey to becoming who they were truly meant to be? It starts with tuning into the deep desires that resonate from within. Embrace this inner voice, and let it guide you as you explore these thoughtful tips that can bring you closer to uncovering what your wild heart yearns to do.

Tips For Discovering Who You Were Meant To Be

1. Embrace Your Authentic Self – Dive deep into the heart of your being, exploring the vibrant tapestry of your values and passions. Celebrate the powerful distinction between the essence of who you are and the echoes of who others have prescribed you to be. To truly connect with yourself, set aside time for heartfelt journaling. Pose these transformative questions to your soul: Envision your future self five years from now—what exhilarating adventures are you undertaking, and what emotions fill your spirit? Which hidden skills or untapped talents are yearning for your nurturing touch and further exploration?
2. Let Go of Limiting Beliefs – Life offers a clear difference between the thoughts of our minds and the true desires of our souls. Often, our minds deceive us with doubts like, “I am not enough” or “It’s too late to learn something new.” By challenging and changing these thoughts, we can discover empowering truths that liberate us! To explore this idea further, read The Gift Of Imperfection – Brené Brown.
3. Embrace Change and Growth – Personal evolution is an ongoing journey; it is not merely a one-time development or transformation. It is crucial to recognize fear as not just a negative emotion but as a sign of stepping into something new and wonderful, an opportunity for growth and learning. By embracing change, we allow ourselves to explore new possibilities and expand our horizons, ultimately leading to a richer, more fulfilling life.
4. Honoring Your Intuition-Your intuition is here to act as a guide. Learn to trust it instead of seeking outside approval from others or relying solely on external validation. Use your intuition as a powerful tool to make decisions that feel deeply aligned with your being and resonate with your personal values. Recognize that your inner voice offers insights and wisdom that can lead you towards paths that are truly fulfilling and rewarding in your life journey. Embrace the intuition you possess, allowing it to lead you towards choices that reflect your authentic self and support your growth.
5. Create a Life That Reflects Your Authentic Self-You are a product of your habits. It’s important to align your daily actions with the person you aspire to be in this world. Remember, the power of free will is within you. If you find yourself feeling disconnected from how you wish to show up, know that you can always make a change. Take a moment to envision what THAT GIRL looks like for you. Reflect on her routines, how she presents herself, and the way she interacts with the world around her.
6. Living with Courage and Purpose-Embrace the journey of life changes, understanding that it won’t always be easy. It’s okay to feel discomfort as you step out of your comfort zone. Allow yourself to be vulnerable, and remember that living authentically is a brave choice. Our brains naturally gravitate towards familiar routines and patterns, so when you decide it’s time for a change, it’s normal for your mind to resist. Take a moment to reflect on your thoughts; recognizing this resistance is a crucial part of your growth.

If you feel a whisper in your soul calling you to do something different, pay attention and take it to heart. This inner voice often means it’s time to explore new possibilities and step out of your comfort zone, pushing the boundaries of what you thought was achievable. It’s never too late to live your true life, embrace the passions that matter to you, and pursue dreams that have been on hold for far too long, often waiting patiently for you to notice them. Each day offers a chance to discover who you are meant to be, challenge the status quo, and empower yourself to take actions that align with your deepest desires. Remember that every journey begins with a single step, and even the smallest changes can lead to profound transformations in your life, enriching your experiences and bringing you closer to fulfillment.

Are you excited to embrace the incredible potential within you and transform into the person you were destined to become? Don’t hesitate to take the leap—book your free coaching consultation today! Click here for an empowering 30-minute session that could change your life!